“today…”

When my children were young, we had a dinner table ritual of asking each one to share about their day. We’d go around the table and, one after another, hope to hear a bit from each. Together. Sharing. Talking. Ariella, maybe 6 years old(?), quickly figured out the fun of this. And decided that what […]
meantime
Someone else has been taking the pooch to the park. Giving her a good walk. Bringing her back. Life one day. Not the same the next. But Peaches, she’s okay. Soaking up the added love. On the 18th of March – a week from tomorrow – I’ll be heading up to Toronto. My daughter, Hunter, […]
the low low down

It was like this… And then, it wasn’t. We went different ways. We left home. And all this complexity that life is came at us full blown. I left for Colorado. Hippies. Hitch hiking. Skiing: many traveling in dubious transport to head recklessly down slopes, as if all were capable of doing so. Huge concerts. […]
tha low down

“Lemme tell you…” “Hey! Get this…” “I bet you didn’t know…” Girl talk. talk talk talk. Taaaaaalk. I grew up in a family of 5 girls (one boy). Let’s not mention my growing up in Virginia, going to an all girls high school. Oh my goodness. Talk. Talking in line. Talking at lunch. Talking on […]
the low down

“Lemme tell you…” “Hey! Get this…” “I bet you didn’t know…” Girl talk. talk talk talk. Taaaaaalk. I grew up in a family of 5 girls (one boy). Let’s not mention my growing up in Virginia, going to an all girls high school. Oh my goodness. Talk. Talking in line. Talking at lunch. Talking on […]
as you were saying…

Don’t you love those conversations that go on and on? I mean, when you are into them. And into what you are sharing and wanting to share next. One thing into another. A stream. Together flowing. Time doesn’t matter. And you feel like – you don’t want this to end. You don’t care about what […]
quiet

We feel the quiet now. The kerfuffle is slowly settling. The doctor appointments are starting to be less frequent. We can sit. Or we can lie down. Linger. Take a moment. Healing doesn’t happen in an instant. But bodies have their wisdom. And we trust. Even as we draw lines. Investigatory lines. Lines to capture […]
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I was going to send you a photo showing my arm – with the stitches out! But it looks: well, ugly. Still kind of swollen. Who wants to see that? For me: I can finally get that area wet. So good things are ahead. And it also seems like – wow, it’s moving along. Even […]
some days

You start off okay. It’s raining – well, just a drizzle. You get outside. That feels good. You come back in: appointment right off the bat. PT this time. All goes well. You love the drive back and forth with your daughter. Love it. On way home, you get a smoothie with her. Yummy. Life […]
some of us are better at it
